Catching Up
Oct. 4th, 2004 11:54 amFriday afternoon, I was crossing the street to the Woodley Park metro station, when a man waiting for the red light caught my eye. I considered for a moment and hopped into the passenger side.
His name is Brian and he's had HIV for nearly twenty years. He and I went to Kramer's in Dupont Circle for a light supper, then he drove me on my errand to pick up the gift I had ordered for
legalmoose's birthday. Afterwards, he drove me home to Baltimore.
He's a very take-charge guy, and I'm going to have to explicitly set my boundaries with him if we're going to become friends. He's ready to jump in the sack with me on a moment's notice, but my body isn't reacting to him that way. He also seems to be very generous -- he picked up the check for dinner and did drive me all the way home. I'm not buying into the mindset that this implies some sort of contract between us.
It was good to meet him and talk about HIV with someone who's seen a lot over the years. I'm always grateful for these opportunities.
I spent Saturday morning trying to get my current project to work. The client was planning a big PR event that evening at the 2004 Mautner Project Gala and we needed the site to be working. Unfortunately, due to delays with getting the SSL certificate authorized and installed, the site wasn't actually live until this morning.
I worked on that as long as I could, but it was pretty much a waiting game, dealing with tech support with the hosting company. I caught a train for DC just before 3 pm to attend
legalmoose's birthday party, which was great fun. I stayed for the end of the party and was intending to take the early train home, but Moose offered to let me crash there.
I headed out on Sunday to catch a train back to Baltimore. When I arrived, I did some laundry, ate some lunch and met my friend Lee, who agreed to drive me to bowling in Perry Hall. My primary and backup rides were both unavailable, so Lee and I planned a day where he drove me to bowling and hung out with me there, then we returned to Baltimore to meet Russell, have dinner and watch Mona Lisa Smile at my apartment. It was a nice evening.
His name is Brian and he's had HIV for nearly twenty years. He and I went to Kramer's in Dupont Circle for a light supper, then he drove me on my errand to pick up the gift I had ordered for
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He's a very take-charge guy, and I'm going to have to explicitly set my boundaries with him if we're going to become friends. He's ready to jump in the sack with me on a moment's notice, but my body isn't reacting to him that way. He also seems to be very generous -- he picked up the check for dinner and did drive me all the way home. I'm not buying into the mindset that this implies some sort of contract between us.
It was good to meet him and talk about HIV with someone who's seen a lot over the years. I'm always grateful for these opportunities.
I spent Saturday morning trying to get my current project to work. The client was planning a big PR event that evening at the 2004 Mautner Project Gala and we needed the site to be working. Unfortunately, due to delays with getting the SSL certificate authorized and installed, the site wasn't actually live until this morning.
I worked on that as long as I could, but it was pretty much a waiting game, dealing with tech support with the hosting company. I caught a train for DC just before 3 pm to attend
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I headed out on Sunday to catch a train back to Baltimore. When I arrived, I did some laundry, ate some lunch and met my friend Lee, who agreed to drive me to bowling in Perry Hall. My primary and backup rides were both unavailable, so Lee and I planned a day where he drove me to bowling and hung out with me there, then we returned to Baltimore to meet Russell, have dinner and watch Mona Lisa Smile at my apartment. It was a nice evening.