Mar. 14th, 2005

My weekend

Mar. 14th, 2005 12:13 am
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Friday was a pretty good day. I worked from home with regular contact with my boss via text or audio chat. We're continuing to fine-tune our current project, which processed over $2,000 in orders this week for the first time.

I took off a little early to jump on a train to DC so I could meet up with Tom D. at his job in Clarendon. I arrived a little early, so I tromped over to the Apple store, where I was able to handle the new iPod Shuffle, Mac Mini and new iMac G5 for the first time. (It's been a while since I've made the pilgrimage.) I also drooled over the digital cameras a little bit.

I met Tom about 6 p.m. and hung out with him while he caught up on a little bit of work, then the two of us headed out to Shirlington for dinner at Carlyle. Wait for a table for two was seventy-five minutes -- so long that they won't even give you the little buzzing coaster because the batteries won't last that long. You have to put your name on the list, then come back after thirty minutes to claim your coaster.

We browsed at the bookstore across the street for a bit, then went back for our coaster. We enjoyed ourselves making small talk, mostly about the other people who were also waiting for tables. The folks with kids were a little perplexing. Why would you bring three children, all under seven, to a restaurant where they will have to wait an hour and fifteen minutes before you even sit down? I suppose that if you've got three kids all under seven, you just have to escape some time, even if you have to take them with you. Still, haven't they heard of a babysitter? On the other hand, none of the children made a fuss at any time, so points go to the parents for that. There are too many loud children in the world.

Dinner was excellent. We ordered lobster pot stickers and crab fritters with a corn salsa for appetizers and they were both yummy. Tom wasn't too impressed with his grilled chicken sandwich, but I splurged on the Hong Kong Sea Bass, which was absolutely stellar. The fish was light, garnished with red and green pepper and ginger, with lump of sticky rice on the side (the best rice is sticky rice!), all bathed in a wonderful sauce.

After dinner, we dropped by Hollywood Video, where we wandered the aisles, looking for movies we could agree upon. We selected Stepford Wives, which Tom had already seen, but want to watch again, and a horror film, Saw. I don't often watch horror films, but, after thirteen years with Russell, I know the art of compromise.

Back to his place to curl up in his big bed to watch the movies, with a bit of an "intermission" between. :-) Stepford Wives was fun, but the ending sort of fell apart for me. Maybe it was Nicole Kidman as a blonde -- not a good look for her. She reminded me of Barbara Eden as Jeannie.

Saw was excellent. Very creepy and we had fun trying to guess what was going to happen next. The movie is about two men, Larry and Adam, who find themselves trapped in shit hole of a room, chained to the walls. They have been kidnapped by a guy who devises deadly tests for his victim. Larry has to kill Adam to save his wife and child, who have also been kidnapped. Adam just has to stay alive.

Hm. Between the movies, but after the "intermission", Tom played a few songs for me on his stereo. It was fun listening to his music, but even more fun to watch him crawl around on the floor in his underwear to reach his CD player!

Oh, it turns out that I double-dosed myself on Combivir Friday night. Since it was about 9:50 when we got ready to watch the movies, I took my pill so I wouldn't have to get up during the movie. At 10:30, my pill alarm went off, so I got up to shut it off and then I took another pill without thinking. Ah well.

Saturday morning, we woke up in time for me to take my morning pill. No ill effects from the double-dose the night before. Tom made pancakes and sausage for breakfast, which was yummy. We watched Fear Factor on the television -- the first time I've ever seen one of those shows, believe it or not. I couldn't watch when they were forced to eat maggoty cheese. Bleah! Anyway, the boobtacular blonde won the $50,000.

We left his place, swung by the video store to drop off the movies and headed to his store. As we passed his store on the way to the parking garage, he asked me if I'd like to hop out and go to the metro to get home, but I declined, happy to spend every last minute with him I could. He said something like, "aren't you sweet!" :-)

Caught a train out of DC back home, but screwed up and got on a train that didn't accept my monthly pass, so I ditched it at New Carrolton and picked up another one an hour later. The conductor kindly didn't charge me for the hop from Union Station to New Carrolton. I stopped by Russell's house to see more of the work he's been doing there, then went home to sleep for the afternoon. In fact, I slept later than I expected, and ended up skipping the HIV social.

Today was bowling, which was fun, and I had Russell over this evening to watch some Star Trek and then Time Bandits. We had macaroni and cheese with stewed tomatoes for dinner, which was a nice cheap meal. After he left, I watched my Suede DVD.

Tightrope

Mar. 14th, 2005 12:27 am
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Money's very tight right now. I hope my boss gets a check from our client tomorrow. I've got sixteen dollars in my wallet, about six dollars in quarters that I've been saving for the laundry and about eighty-two dollars in my checking account. Tomorrow I return to my doctor for the results of last week's blood draw (the woman taking my blood had to stick me three times!), which will cost me seventy-five dollars, until I can get my claim processed.

I probably should have ordered something less expensive for dinner Friday night, but it was a nice restaurant, and I don't know if I'll ever eat there again. The cheapest entrees were only a couple of dollars less than the one I ordered. I could have got a sandwich, but the two (only two?) choices weren't very exciting.

I did get a bit of a break at the video store. I had an old gift card that I had received as a farewell gift when I left my job in Baltimore two years ago. It turns out that it was still good and had a balance of eighteen dollars and change, so I rented our two movies, paid off Tom's late fees and gave the card to him to use up. I'm glad that I didn't have to spend more of the actual cash money.

I have my insurance and rent paid for the month, so those things aren't in jeopardy. Phone, cable and cell phone can all wait a week or so. I haven't made any progress on my medical debt, unfortunately.

In retrospect, canceling my American Express card was a bit premature. I could use a bit of credit right now, and I don't have any other cards.

Still, I know that "this too shall pass." One way or another, I'll have cash by the end of the week. Either I get paid, or I get a loan from my parents. The only thing is that I made this resolution that if I had to hit my folks up for cash, then I was going to quit this job and I'm not sure I want to follow through with that. If I do ask, then my mom can have cash in my account in Jacksonville within hours.

This is not a catastrophic situation by any means.
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I've just been approved for a Capital One credit card after applying online. They've been sending me offers repeatedly, so I dug one out of the trash and applied. The card won't arrive for 7-10 days, but at least I'll have some credit for emergencies.

Besides, I can't rent cars without a real credit card. The companies I like to rent from don't accept debit cards when making a reservation.

Blooooood!

Mar. 14th, 2005 01:25 pm
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I had an appointment with my doctor today to discuss my blood work. My viral load rose to 121 from an undetectable level three months ago. My t-cells dropped to 256 from 259, but their percentage rose to 26% from (I think) 23%.

I told Dr. Westrick that I had the flu recently, and he told me that an illness can depress the number of white blood cells, including t-cells. It can also account for the viral replication. I am showing signs of anemia, so I have to go back in a month for another blood test to keep an eye on that. If he determines that it's due to my regimen, he'll recommend a different one that doesn't include Combivir (AZT).

I don't want to change regimens -- I'm not experiencing any side effects from this one, although Dr. Westrick pointed out that if I'm developing anemia, then that's a side effect, which is a good point.

As I calculated, I had just enough in the bank to cover the cost of my visit. I've already put the claim forms for this visit and my previous visit in the mail.

I checked with my insurance company. I'm paying for COBRA benefits -- $265 per month. To convert that to an individual policy would raise my premium to $580 per month. It's time for me to apply for the drug assistance benefit in Maryland. My COBRA benefits don't run out until October, but I'd feel better with a safety net.

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